Unlike mainstream dating guru's, I don't teach courtship style dating, nor do I teach the other social program of 'game'.  I also don't talk very much about long-term relationships, marriage or managing them.

First of all, What is 'Game'?

GAME is generally falling into the illusion of sexploitation and objectifying women as sex objects while continually chasing, fantasizing and trying to 'get some' from women who look or behave like that.  And this is done primarily in nightclubs.  That may be a crude outlook but I think it's generally accurate.

I disagree with almost all of mainstream AND PUA (pick-up artist) dating advice.  My general dating outlook is that I don't court, manipulate, game or chase women.  Yet I live a lifestyle in some ways that exceeds mPUA (master) level.  I am the self-proclaimed KING of International Dating/Women.  It is a fantasy of many men but it's a reality for me (and could be for you too if you want).

For a general idea, what I do would probably be closest to Brent, Rick H. and then Zan's outlook (if you've heard of them).

Keep in mind, that I'm not a D&D/Warcraft playing basement nerd or social weakling.  In fact, I prefer meeting the real people of power instead of wannabe's.

What I do is pretty hardcore and doesn't have to be this effective/extreme for you.  I'll go to a city for a week and often sleep with several different women.  I've got MANY many crazy stories and this is the 'frame' of how I practically 'date' women (many of them I am still in touch with).  Models, flight attendants, students, Republicans, Democrats, you name it.  I've been with women from over 2 dozen countries.

I strongly think that the real world (proven) ability is more important than ANY one woman until she becomes your fiance.  And it's the capability that will help you get and deserve her.

I'm a balanced, high quality 'catch' who has his own dreams and goals in life that are #1.  I'm not a pick-up artist, I'm a ladies man (who also picks up women) who loves and respects women.  They are just an amazing complement to my life.

Without getting too deep into it here, I'll just say that times have changed and women (despite their logical or social programmed ideals) want to 'see what develops' without all kinds of (social) pressure or judgments that men bring to the table.  And they want men to be men - real men.

I do not EVER disrespect, judge, question or criticize women for wanting or getting physical with me within any kind of timeframe.  I think this is something that is holding more men back than they realize.  Women have to logically know it's OK and you have to represent that so that you both can open up and enjoy the bliss of nature. 

If you're courting or gaming women, those pressures or judgments usually go along with it. 

Either of those programs have their own rules and behavioral conducts even which I talk about in the Men's Guide eBook and other places.

I never pressure women into getting physical, but I lead the way and things usually (almost always now) develop on the natural level leading to you know where.  I will (respectfully) drop women who don't fit into my view of reality.

I do not take women I'm casually dating out to expensive dinners nor buy them gifts.  But I'm the kind of guy they want for short-term AND long-term relationships (in many cases).  And if women put aside their social programming, they know it's NOT about money (love don't cost a thing). 

I'm not chastised to the friendzone anymore.  I live a dream lifestyle anywhere I go in the world and there's no reason to play games.  It's easy to meet new women and things 'work'.

So what do I do or who am I with women?

I form new casual dating relationships that aren't based on money, manipulation or paying for her time or affection (which are social programs which generate profits for businesses to the dis-benefit of building most physical dating relationships in today's age). 

Instead, you could clearly call the applied effect of what I do as Lifestyle Dating.  In other words:

I DON'T TEACH YOU HOW TO COURT WOMEN. 

I DON'T TEACH YOU HOW TO 'GAME' WOMEN. 

I LIVE, REPRESENT & TEACH 'LIFESTYLE DATING'

It's how to be a man who has the power, interest, attraction, value, choice, real world relationships and abilities to succeed with desirable women anywhere he goes in the world.

And it's really much more than that as you'll discover (that which is more aligned to Zan's vision), but this is just the frame of how I view dating relationships as a bachelor.  Plus it's really more about who you are than what you 'do' or the 'actions' you take.

I'm so effective because of this powerful outlook and in allowing my congruent nature to connect with women.  I'm not a misogynist or chauvinist but I really do love women.  They are the light of the earth.

I connect with them, know how to please them, but I don't manipulate them, trick or 'game' them, nor do I walk on metaphorical eggshells being a fake self with false intentions of trying to marry them on the first dates even though I want to secretly sleep with them. 

Maybe you've been courting women by taking them out on traditional dates that don't end up anywhere (and she sleeps with someone else instead) while you paid for everything.  Maybe you've tried 'the game' and realized how difficult, ineffective, damaging and unnatural it is.

Lifestyle Dating is about being real and giving women experiences that they're missing and dream about.  It's about your empowerment and bringing out the nature of women.  It's about experiencing life without limitations.

My women know that I'm about fun and not getting serious (unless the timing is there or we are really exceptional together).  I generally keep most emotion out of it so as not to break hearts but I'm open to see what develops for something more serious.

With a lifestyle outlook, relationships almost inevitably turn physical because I'm not constrained by social programs or limitations.  I meet plenty of women and have PLENTY of choice and there are always more options because I have value across the board to bring to women. 

It's on my terms.  Women can join in or not but I've got my own things going on and other women who really do want to be with me.

Because there are so many women it comes down to logistics and priority management.  YOU can have this kind of lifestyle if you want.  You're definitely in one of the best places possible to discover and apply it.

It may seem amoralistic but 'I'm single and ready to mingle'.  I have no shame in dating MANY women (often simultaneously).

And I think it's healthy for a high quality, in-demand single man to date a lot of women to have a better insight and an idea who would be a match for the long term.  And it's ok for him to find a high quality fiance from one of those women he meets (with consent and if he chooses) where he can be more deserving of her because of his experience with women.

It's been noticed that men want a woman 'like that' and 'women want THAT man'.  You can be THAT man.

The advantages of lifestyle dating over courtship and 'game' are innumerable.  There's no winners or losers; you form new win/win relationships or you don't.  Although you don't disrespect women, YOU have the inherent natural power (when you unleash it ie. with my programs). 

She can be a real woman in it's purest form (free of social standards and limitations).  You don't have to conform or follow any rules of the game, nor do you even have to get rejected.

This is quite different from mainstream dating and with different results!

L.D. allows your personality to shine, you can be direct or indirect with women.  Most importantly, you can allow the sexual chemistry to spark and grow stronger to develop a relationship without limits.  Instead of playing games, you give women what they want because you are a man who offers it congruently to them.

Here's the thing which always goes understated (because I'm so used to things now and have disconnected with the past); I didn't always have it like this.  Although I wasn't a 'wuss', I used to have some anxiety and struggle with women as well.  In fact, I used to be VERY frustrated.  But things changed massively over the years and include learning from the best known in the world.

Now, let me say a few things about the other primary dating options.

'Game' (which you can learn from many different PUA style guru's) works strongly to the favor and advantage of those at the top of the game and with women who fall into it and are playing 'the game' as well. 

It's full of manipulation and social status power plays.  It is derived by man and unnatural.  It will even seem like these are the only women right in front of you (you want the steak far more when it's sizzling right in front of you out of reach).

Despite the over-promoted and tempting allure of it (an illusion which appears real), it's set up against you and in fact GAME seems kind of ridiculous the more awareness, distance and personal power you have.  I recommend you download my 'End of Game' eBook on this website.

With your independent power and a lifestyle dating outlook, even if you're in 'game' environs you'll still have more effect on women.  You'll also have far more power and ability to network and form powerful relationships when you take the more elite, socially active lifestyle approach.

So, again; since both 'game' and 'courtship' (traditional dating) are social programs they inherently have rules, codes and limitations that work to your disbenefit AND to the chagrin of women today.  You are the one as the man who sets the terms of the relationship.

With lifestyle, you're free from those antiquated rules and you have the power and far more effect (not to mention instant social value) with women to develop physical, balanced relationships faster - and have a LOT more fun and value out of life.

In your city or anywhere you go, you can meet new women (day/night/internet) and get new numbers, schedule dates, room parties and rotate women.  When you have the sexual attraction capability, it sounds weird but logistics is really the main issue because THINGS HAPPEN. 

It's like a snowball effect and you're always 'on' even from the start.  Managing your new honies may be one of your top priorities.  Trust me, it's a good problem and if you want time alone, you can take it.  Why?  Because it's your lifestyle.

Go with me on a coaching experience and you'll see as all my clients and best friends have.

If you think that lifestyle may be the closest to what you want (or at least having the power or ability of choice with great-looking women), then you're in the right place. 

Now, HOW we actually achieve the power and sexual attraction capability within the outlook of lifestyle dating (which further accelerates your experience and saves years of time), is what most of the rest of the site is about.

Even with the power and sexual attraction capability you can develop, you don't have to lifestyle date women.  You can live on your terms with fewer women.  It's up to you. 

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